What is a Hater? What is your definition of a hater? As for me a HATER is someone who tries to put you down, never wants to congratulate you on your accomplishments, or just someone who tries to out shine you on any given moment...Basically it is someone who is always giving off NEGATIVE vibes. These are the people who never, I do mean NEVER have anything nice to say.
I have a few in my life just like everyone else, but what I want to know is how do one become a HATER?! Do one wake up in the morning and just say damn I'm going to be a hater, does it run through the blood line, or does it come from the people you are around? I mean dayum...why hate on the next person if they are doing well? Now if you are telling the truth and not trying to throw shade on purpose than I guess you have a valid argument and will not be considered a hater. Make sure you are doing it to be truthful and not hating because she can afford a pair of Christian Louboutin or he can drive around in the hottest car and don't have to worry about the price of gas. If it means that much to you should try to borrow those shoes and drive or at least be on the passenger side of that car and not hate on the person.
How many haters must we encounter? You have the haters at work, at home, and on the streets...you don't even know these folks, yet they have so much to say about you. I can write a book on these people all day every day, especially the people I work with. You even have celebs hating on one another leaking pictures, talking stuff about how the next artist fell off when they are one hit away themselves, or they are just talking trash about how they are with jump offs and who has been with who....Funny, since it seems that they are all together at one time or another anyway. Can we just say "GURL YOU LOOK GOOD!" "MAN YOU GOT SWAGGER LIKE NO OTHER!" or something just as simple as a "HAVE A GOOD DAY." NOOOOOO we have to say "GURL YOU SEE WHAT SHE WEARING? THAT IS NOT CUTE" "DID YOU KNOW DUDE LIVE IN A ROACH INFESTED APARTMENT." or " SUCH AND SUCH DON'T KNOW HIS/HER WAY THAT PROGRAM LIKE I DO, SO I DON'T KNOW WHY THE PICKED THEM. THEY BETTER NOT ASK FOR HELP" LOL, people really say this stuff. What I don't understand is how does any of their business concern you? These are the people I give names based on their very own ATTITUDE and I try my best to avoid them as much as possible.
The way I see things HATERS ARE LIKE LITTLE DARTS BEING SHOT AT YOU, JUST BRUSH THEM OFF. YOU KNOW YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE WHEN THEY COME, YOU SHOULD EXPECT THEM.
Just be grateful for the things that you have, the person you are, or the person you can become, you don't have to live to impress the next man or woman you can do that all by just being YOU!
Here are tell tell signs that you are a HATER:
1. YOU FIND SOMETHING WRONG WITH EVERYTHING OR EVERYONE AROUND YOU IF IT IS NOT ABOUT OR FOR YOU.
I know I said signs...but hell this sums it up pretty well, lol. There is only one!
You are on your way to becoming a HATER:
1. When you find yourself agreeing with everything a HATER has to say.
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